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Monday, December 28, 2015

Christmas Photos and House of Honey

It was great talking to you on Skype.  Here's some fun photos for you this week.


Christmas Morning with the  Kempeners!






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House of Honey in the Christmas Market










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Ribs at a Christmas Market


 Beef Wellington. My new favorite dish.


At a members house.

Monday, December 21, 2015

Christmas Week


This week was oddly warm. It felt like spring. I remember last December pretty well, and it was cold and rainy and sometimes snowy. So far it has been pretty inconsistent. 

Monday was pretty fun! We went to Frankfurt to check out the Christmas Markets there. It’s my last Christmas here, so I have to get some cool things here that are Christmassy.  Afterwards, we had an appointment with an investigator named Imad. We read Alma 32 together and talked about planting that which we teach/have taught into his heart and praying to find out the truth of what we are saying. It went really well! We invited him to be baptized on the 30th of January once he received his answer. We promised him that we will help him to get his answer by then. He accepted! He has a long way to go, but I think it will happen eventually. I am excited for him!



Christmas Market



Christmas Market



Christmas Market
 
Wednesday, we were able to meet with Imad again. We started from the beginning, starting with the first lesson about the Restoration.  Since it has been a while since it was taught and neither of us were there for it, we wanted to get a feel for his understanding. It went really well. I’m pretty sure that he knows that he’s a Christian. Yeah, he is technically Muslim, but I’m sure that he really does believe that Christ is the Son of God. Afterwards, we hurried over to an appointment with our two new investigators. It was our first lesson with them; But, we already talked with them before at the Christmas Party last week. Their names are Mona and Christin. They are so ready to accept the Gospel! It is way cool! We taught the message of the Restoration to them also. They spirit was super strong there. We invited them to be Baptized on the 9th of January. Christin (19) said she would and Mona (57) said, "Why not?" We actually heard from the Young Women's leader that Christin asked her at the Christmas Party how one becomes a member of our Church. I know right? Super cool! Christin went to a YSA (Young Single Adult) activity with a girl in our ward on Thursday. It apparently went really well and she fit in just fine.

Thursday, we had a Zone Conference in Offenbach. It was nice to see three of my old companions there and many more people who I have not seen in a long time. As I was there, I was struck with the realization that I am starting to go into the mission category of 'Old'. There are only 16 transfers in a mission. Each lasts 6 weeks. I’m already in my 10th transfer and I am in the third week of it. Weird. It is odd to talk with missionaries who are younger than me because I am still in the mindset of thinking that everyone is older than me. After the meeting, I went on a split with a Zone Leader. We had a lot of trouble getting home. We were trying to get to Offenbach from Frankfurt and our subway stopped and told us that it could not go further until emergency doctors came. He highly encouraged us all to get off the train and use a different transport. Apparently, a guy jumped in front of a train. Whether it was ours or one ahead of us, we have no idea. All we know is that it took forever to get to Frankfurt. Once we were there, we get on the train to go home and it starts to go. We then realize that after we got on, the train changed its route and we had no idea until it was too late. We then get off at some random sketchy train stop in the middle of nowhere. We then go to the other side and start to wait for the train back. All the trains connected to Frankfurt are somehow delayed because of the “accident”; So, we are standing there forever. During the entire trip, I kept asking myself, "So what is something cool that will come out of this experience? What is the reason for this?" I have seen it many times on my mission where things will go totally different than what you expect sometimes and you will not be able to do anything about it except for just going with it. At the end, something cool usually comes out of it. As was the case for this day. As we were waiting, a couple walk by and I hear the man mumble something about Jehovah's Witnesses. I automatically knew he was talking about us because this happens all the time. I correct him and we had a good conversation with his girlfriend. He did not really have to much of an interest, but he was chill. The girl was 22 and from Lithuania. She was a lot more open. The topic of religion was over after a while and the four of us had a good time talking with one another about other things. They were way cool. We then gave up hope on our train and we took a street train. They helped us get back to Frankfurt and then to the train we needed. They were super friendly and cool and we were able to invite them to Church in Frankfurt. It was pretty cool. Sadly, we were not able to make it to our appointment that night with Alfred.

Saturday, we helped a member move. It was one of the more organized moves that I have taken part of on my mission. It was simple and was not too difficult and there were a lot of people. Afterwards we go home and get ready to go all the way up to a city called Wiesbaden with Mona and Christin to show them how a baptism in our church goes. It was a really great experience for them! They really felt the spirit and thought that it was really great! We were able to talk with them about the experience and testify about the Holy Ghost that they were feeling. They became more excited for their own baptism. We then traveled home. Trains were super late and it took a while to get there and back, so that was our day. It was neat to see them get excited about their baptism though! I think I will be seeing my first baptisms on the mission soon. We just got to keep them strong. They have great member involvement and they even came to church on Sunday. Again, they really enjoyed it and it was a wonderful experience for them. Super cool!



Elder Kitchen and I with our two new investigators going to visit the chapel. 
Baptismal date set for next month.


Sunday night, we were privileged to go to an evangelical church to listen to their orchestra and choir sing and play for their Christmas special. A member of our ward was part of the choir and was able to get us in for free. It was really neat!! The music was amazing. At first, I thought it was going to be good but then they started playing. Then, I realized, they were good. Like, really good! It was absolutely amazing. They sung everything in English and it caught me off guard. They sung Silent Night in German, of course.  I mean, you have to use the original text. But yeah, it was really good! They read pieces of the Christmas story in the Bible in between pieces and it really showed me that as long as truth is being spoken, the Spirit will still be there to testify that Jesus is the Christ. Pretty cool.

Two Mormon Missionaries inside an Evangelical Church


Photo inside the Evangelical Church



Photo inside the Evangelical Church



Photo Outside the Evangelical Church


Wow that was a long email. I hope you've enjoyed the read. Have a great Christmas, y'all!

Elder Kayl Grow

Monday, November 30, 2015

Schon Wieder? (Again?)

I wish I could be home with you all! This might be the the first time that I have felt actually a bit homesick. Yeah, I have always missed home, but this time I would do anything to be with yall for a couple hours! But yeah, like you said, last one!  I cant wait to see you all face to face soon!
I can't wait to come home and make my relationship better with all the kids. As I have been gone, I have realized that I took WAY too much for granted. Sure it will not be the same when I get home, but it is never too late to start being the person that I wish I could've been.
Time flies. That is all I have to say. The end of the transfer is already here. This Saturday, we'll be listening to the transfer calls again. 

A few main points for this week:
- Got sick
- Thanksgiving/Christmas dinner activity in the ward
- Cold
- Wet
- Two new potential investigators in one day
- Helped people
- New Christmas video
- It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas everywhere I go

On Thursday, I ate something; Which, for whatever reason, did not agree with me. I ate it that morning, puked after lunch, and later while we were on our way to an appointment, and while on the train at about 3pm. Ha ha ha ha so yeah. That was not fun at all. We turned around to go home and we cancelled our appointment.  It was accompanied by a pounding headache; So, I pretty much took it easy for a chunk of the day and tried to sleep it off. It helped. I didn't feel queasy anymore, just a bad headache. It was not that enjoyable.

The next day, I was feeling just fine! We did weekly planning and then we had an appointment with our investigator which fell out. We later had out Christmas/Thanksgiving dinner with the men of the ward. We were able to get a ward member to pick up one of our investigators named Alfred. It was good to have him there! He is lonely and was able to talk with people. The ward members were super great! They made him feel super welcome. The food was good and the spiritual thought was also good. It was a great time!

Sunday, we helped our ward mission leader teach the Sunday school lesson. We introduced and shared the new Christmas video that the Church put out just barely. It is really cool!  You should go check it out. It's called, "A Savior is Born." We were able to help get the members excited for Christmas and for sharing the Christmas Spirit with other people. We then had an appointment with a member after church. Lets just say that German food is amazing! I love it here. I cannot really describe what it was but pretty much it was home made Spätzle (a type of noodle) with some good sauce and meat to go along with it. It was simply delicious. We then went to check on some people. One of which was Alfred. We were able to talk with him and to cheer him up a bit. We read with him and taught him how to pray. It was good! I love that man. He's a great person. 

That was the highlights of the week! I am super excited for Christmas here. The Christmas Markets are starting to open up. We are going to a city called Mainz today to check out the Christmas Market there. Hopefully this rain will give out soon.

Love y'all! Have a great one!

Elder Grow

 Photo 1: Getting the apartment festive


 Photo 2: Using a jig-saw to cut turkey?

Monday, November 23, 2015

Getting Cold!


Backpack Update - He never got his backpack back.

This week was pretty good.  We got a new investigator this last Wednesday.  We met with him in a little playground place at night. That is where I got a Quran.  We met him a week prior and I asked him if he had one in English.  I then asked if I could have one.  That is how I got it ha ha ha!  We found this awkward stone thing that we were able to sit on and talk.  I sat on the ground so that we could be in more of a circle.  We had a good lesson with him though.  He’s Muslim and is open to other religions.  He said, "Wherever the truth is, I will follow it."  He had some pretty tough questions.  We were able to answer them pretty well though.  We had a week or so to study his questions before the appointment.  We are meeting with him again this week. I am curious to see where this goes. 


Last Monday, we went up to Mainz to go and hang out with the Elders and Sisters there. There is also a senior couple who is serving in Mainz.  They are way cool.  We all kinda just chilled and talked and played games. Sister Jerarrd made some cookies for us all.  It was pretty fun.  We then had an appointment at a member's place.  It went pretty well.  We then had some extra time and we did not really know what to do.  We already made a plan for afterwards but we weren't really feelin' it.  We decided to pray and ask what we were to do.  We sat on our bikes for a bit and then we decided to go by on an investigator who we have not seen in a while. We went by on Alfred.  We get there and he lets us in.  It was not going so well with him.  We just talked with him and just listened to him.  It was good that we went by.  He said he was thankful for the visit.  He is just lonely and wants someone to take care of.  He just wants to serve people but does not seem to know how. Our visit really helped out a bit.  We then hurried home because it was freezing cold and late.

Tuesday evening was really cool!  There was a conference that was being held in a city called Offenback and it was being broadcasted across Europe.  Elder M. Russel Ballard was there.  It was cool!  There were also a ton of missionaries there from other parts of our mission.  It was nice to see some old faces!  Elder Ballard is a funny guy though.  He said at one point, "When you die, you’re going to the spirit world and you will be put to work to do missionary work.  If you can't get out of it by dying, you might as well learn to do it and enjoy it while you're living."  I thought that was a pretty good one.  We also got a potential investigator yesterday named Blessing.  We will see where that goes.

 Elder Ballard

On Friday, after weekly planning, we met with Dominik and Petra, our two main investigators as of right now. We had Bruder (Brother) Kempener, our Ward Mission Leader, come with us. It went really good!  We read together with them in the Book of Mormon for a little bit.  It went well!  We then went to the church to teach a lesson to a young man who’s going to be turning 12 in the next couple of months.  It was a priesthood prep class.  There were other classes/activities going on in other rooms for different age groups of youth.  Afterwards we all ate some spaghetti for dinner.

Saturday, we had an appointment with a part-member family. The trains were super bad that day so it took forever to get there.  Once we got there, the family’s 14-year-old son is at the train stop waiting for us so he could show us how to get to his place.  As we’re going, we walk by a random basketball hoop. We shoot a couple shots with him as it rained. It was pretty fun. I was running over to the ball and I forgot that I was not wearing normal shoes, so I grabbed the ball and tried to pivot on my left foot.  I slipped in the mud and nearly did the splits but ended up on my back.  I couldn't help but laugh at myself.  We had a great lesson about eternal families.  We’re hoping to work with them more.  The husband believes in it all; he just like his beer. But yeah, like I said, we’re hoping to work with them more. We then got a ride from the husband to the next city that we planned on going to. We went by an investigator who we have had a hard time getting in contact with. The trains were still all messed up so it was hard to go anywhere. We finally get to his house and he was not home. We hit some doors in the area.  We were able to get a potential investigator.  As we were leaving, we were able to talk with someone and give out a Book of Mormon.  It took forever to get home, but we made it!

So yeah, these were the highlights for the week.  I hope you all had a good one! Bis Später! (See you Later!)
Elder Grow

 Huge Dog. The lady is about 5ft



 Pre-Backpack Loss with Zone Leader